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The addict then begins to crave, seek, and eventually find more intense sex and/or romance.

His further believes that sex and love addiction, if left untreated That too becomes an insufficient hit so that the addict then seeks more intensity.

will ultimately result in insanity, death, or a worsening cycle of self-destructive acting out or acting-in behaviors.

that on the way to that ultimate end the untreated sex and love addict can experience humiliation, divorce, loss of job and home, destitution, unwanted pregnancies and abortions, imprisonment, and diseases both disfiguring and deadly.

and that the untreated sex and love addict can cause considerable destruction to and even the death of friends, family, acquaintances, and strangers.

There are a variety of ways sex and love addicts tend to act out. These include but are certainly not limited to: prostitution, anonymous affairs, multiple affairs, compulsive masturbation or use of pornography.

Acting out can also include loving multiple partners, either at the same time, or serially, one after another. It can also include being involved in long-distance affair and love romances, such as internet. The various forms can include love fantasy (gothic romance) or the use of intrigue and innuendo and other flirting behavior as a means of feelign more powerful and/or hiding from one's true feelings. There are a variety of ways sex and love addicts act in. Although acting-in behaviors can be destructive to family, self respect and career like acting-out, they are often harder to see.Īcting in behaviors include obsessive computer pornography or anorexia regarding relationships and self. As part of some addictive patterns, anorexia may follow periods of acting-out. members refer to "love addiction" they are generally talking about something which might be more accurately called "romantic intrigue" or "extreme emotional dependency".

members believe that real, healthy love is a very different and much better state of being than the desperately clinging, emotional dependency. Often this form of dependency brings people to S.L.A.A. believes that in many cases sexual acting-out is tightly bound to this dependent pseudo-love and that love addicts are often attracted to sex addicts with mutually destructive results. love addiction can be as malignant as sex addiction. Extreme emotional dependency can drive both men and women to controlling and even violently jealous criminal behavior.